You won’t lose weight with diet and exercise if it’s not being supported by a healthy lifestyle.  While they sound like the same thing, they’re definitely not.

What is a healthy lifestyle? A healthy lifestyle is one that involves eating moderately healthy and exercising.  It isn’t that easy though — it also has a large part to do with the small decisions you make, the ones made during the other 22-23 hours of the day when you’re not at the dinner table or the gym.

Living a healthy lifestyle means doing the following:

1. Putting your cart in its designated area. After you’re done putting groceries into your car, put your shopping cart in one of those designated cage areas found throughout the parking lot.  Even better, take the cart back to the store.

2. Not going through drive thrus — park and walk inside. If you have the urge to go get a Big Mac, at the very least get out of the car and walk 40 feet to the counter.  This goes for banks, dry cleaners, etc.  Not only will you lose weight walking inside, but you’ll usually get helped quicker.

3. Not circling a parking lot for 20 minutes. I spent enough time addressing this yesterday, I think I’ve wasted enough of my life on this topic.

4. Taking the stairs. I went to my landlord’s new two-story office a couple of weeks ago and he  insisted I took the elevator, not the stairs.  Wait, what?  I know I’m fat, but give me some credit — I can walk up a flight of stairs.

5. Walking (or running) to the mailbox. Three months ago I would stop at our driveway (about 75 feet long) and roll down my window to grab the mail.  These days, I pull all the way to the garage door, get out, and walk (or run) to the mail.

6.  Preparing your meals, limiting processed. I’m not naive enough to expect most people to cut out processed foods completely, I know I certainly won’t — unless Cracker Jack starts growing in wheat fields.  And while it’s common sense that grapes are healthier than chips, also keep in mind the dozens of calories you’ll burn by taking the time and effort preparing a fresh meal.

7.  Not feeling bad about your diet. If you have something considered “unhealthy” (cheese, french fries, etc) don’t feel bad about it.  Don’t call it “splurging” either, I can’t stand that word.  You know what you should call it instead, you should call it “controlling portions and eating moderately healthy.”

8.  Having a yard sale. It takes a lot of calories to have a yard sale.  It’s also a good way to (indirectly) clean your house and make a few bucks while you’re at it.

Who needs all that crap taking up valuable space, anyway?

9.  Getting enough sleep. When we implement an exercise routine into a busy life, we normally take back that  lost time by substracting it from our time spent sleeping.  By sleeping less, you increase the chances of being tired the following day, resulting in a lack of energy and motivation to be physically active.

A lack of sleep is a vicious cycle which will cause you to have increasingly unproductive workouts or even worse, you’ll begin skipping workouts because you’re already exhausted before you even get to the gym.

10.  Doing chores. Mowing, vacuuming, washing dishes, doing the laundry — everything burns calories.   Heck, not doing chores will burn calories, but your house will look better if you vacuum.  Depending on your height/weight, you can burn hundreds of calories doing an hour or two of chores around the house.

11.  Watching less television. Yes, I love The Price is Right too — Drew Carey is a fantastic host.  It’s just simply ridiculous though to watch 2-3+ hours of TV a day as some people do.  Not to sound harsh, but I’d rather be out doing something (anything) with my life than watching someone elses.

This is how I try to live a healthy lifestyle.  I don’t always succeed, but I try.

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dc-0552My wife and I live in the country on the outskirts of suburbia in Columbia, South Carolina. Living in the country, we have to drive about 20 minutes into town to reach any kind of “big name” store.

This morning around 11 I drove to town to pick up some random office supplies at Office Depot. Pulling up to the store, I realized it’s closed — the sign on the door reads “Sunday: 12PM – 6 PM.”  I decide to check the nearby Wal-Mart, the only other store in the area that could possibly have what I need.  They don’t, so I go back out to my car at around 11:15 and wait for Office Depot to open.  I drove to the back of the Wal-Mart parking lot (within view of Office Depot) and parked to kill some time.

Bored, I played with my iPhone, flipped through radio stations, watched cars, etc. As I lost interest with my phone, I began to watch cars more and more and started to notice a lazy trend:

They didn’t want to park.

Well, it’s not that they didn’t want to park, they just didn’t to park and walk.  I understand elderly, pregnant, or injured people (or all of the above?) going down three or four aisles to find a close parking space, but if you’re able-bodied — just save the time, park, and walk the extra 25 feet.

Being intrigued (and a nerd), I grabbed a pen from the console and started to jot down my observations.  I watched 23 cars in the roughly 30 minutes I had to kill — here’s what I observed:

2 cars went down 1 aisle. These cars went down the aisle they entered the lot on and quickly parked at the back of the “main group” of cars.

6 cars went down 2 aisles. Down the aisle, then up.

6 cars went down 3 aisles. Down, up, then back down again.

7 cars went down 4 aisles. That means they came in from the back of the lot (where I was) and went down that aisle, came back up another aisle, down another, then finally parking on the trip up the next aisle.

2 cars went down 5+ aisles. I spent less time watching OJ’s bronco.

Want to start losing weight today?  Park in the first aisle, not the 3rd.  I’ve lost 47 pounds in 9 weeks not just by going to the gym and eating moderately healthy, but by making countless small lifestyle changes like this one.

I’ll share a lot more lifestyle changes later on this week.

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I get several of e-mails like this one on a daily basis — I read every single one and once I find the time, I reply.  If you’ve written me and haven’t received anything back yet… don’t worry, it’s coming.

This is one of the reasons I’m blogging my weight loss journey.

Tyler,

I’m sure you get a lot of these emails, but I just wanted to thank you for posting your weight loss experience. You’ve inspired me to be more aware of what I eat and how active I am (or more accurately, how inactive I am). You’ve shown me that I can still have pizza and cake once in a while, as long as I incorporate more fruits, veggies, and other healthy alternatives into my day-to-day diet. I keep an eye on calories, but I allow myself to have a couple tacos for dinner if I want. It’s nice to not feel like I’m restricted on a typical diet.

Though my weight loss goals are much smaller than yours right now, I too have struggled with my weight throughout my life. Just when I had achieved a body and a lifestyle that I was happy with, I met my current fiance, and nothing makes you gain weight faster than a comfortable relationship. Bigger and bigger I grew as fewer and fewer of my clothes fit. I hate that I now have to “dance” into my jeans every morning because I have grown a bit too big for them.

I tried lots of fad diets, but of course none of them worked. Then I found your blog through consumerist.com, and it was like a lightbulb went on in my brain. Why can’t I just eat better, excise more, and allow myself some not-so-healthy foods once in a while? When I read that your wife was expecting, and that your future child was one of your motivators, my mind was made up. My fiance and I often talk about having a child, and if I’m going to be the one carrying it around for 9 months, I need to have a body that’s healthy and ready to do it. If I stopped living off sweets and carbs, and got used to eating fruits and veggies now, it wouldn’t be as hard once I was pregnant, it would just be HABIT.

So, again, I really want to thank you for posting your experiences and showing the rest of us that there is a way for the average person to lose weight without losing their minds.

-Kate
Age 24

It’s e-mails and comments like these that make me push myself everyday.

Thanks, Kate.

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