We’re all losing weight for our own reasons. These belong to me.
I’m going to be a daddy. It’s extremely selfish to live unhealthy if there are other people that care about you. Not only care about you, but rely on you. This didn’t sink in when it was just me and my wife, but my baby girl will be here in less than 3 weeks (due date is March 22). I reckon she’ll appreciate her daddy being around for a little while longer.
I don’t want to die. Not only do other people count on me to stick around, I’d rather not die for my own selfish reasons. Go figure. If I have to have a few less egg rolls and french fries to live another 20 years, fine by me. When I was 22 I was diagnosed with high blood pressure — today it’s plummeting and I’m almost back to normal levels.
Countless health benefits. I’ve lost 30 pounds — that’s comparable to two heavy bowling balls that I’m no longer carrying around with me everywhere. In addition to lowering my blood pressure level, losing roughly 10% of my body weight has improved my posture, made me more agile, increased my mobility, and decreased my sleep apnea (which I had a HUGE problem with).
The biggest difference so far has been my energy levels. They’ve exploded.
Be more confident and outspoken. I read a story where a pastor in Georgia, weighing 344 pounds, lost 160 pounds in a single year by simply eating better and exercising. While I’m certainly not a shy person, nor one that hides from attention, I know losing this weight will make me much more confident.
One thing the pastor said:
It’s hard to tell folks to get their lives together when your stomach is hanging over your belt.
While I doubt you’re a pastor (unless I really don’t know my reader base), I’m sure you can apply his statement to some parts or situations of your life.
To use what I was given. We let ourselves become such slaves to technology and processed food — that’s why we’re all a bunch of tubbies. But regardless of how you believe we came to be placed upon this world, you and I were granted a lease to some pretty incredible bodies. I not only want to lose this weight, I want to test my body’s limits — I want to be powerful, I want to run marathons for charity, I want to be able to swim across a lake near my house…
I want to use my body to do some incredible things.
It’s hard buying nice clothes. Not only are larger sizes hard to find, but they are more expensive too. If you do find a store with a big & tall section (Belk, JCPenneys), they normally don’t have a very good selection.
Look hot by the pool. I know I’m married, but that doesn’t mean I have to look like a beached whale when I lay out by the pool/beach. Even though I could have been happy looking 344 pounds, other people have to look at me too.
Increase my hang time. I’m playing basketball for at least an hour everyday in my driveway. Today I played for about two hours. I have a wicked shot, good dribbling skills, but my hang time for shots and layups could be longer. Hey, I never said all these reasons would be deep or sincere.
I’m tired of hating cameras. Most people say a picture add 10 pounds; I’d say that’s a slight underestimate. I’ve never looked good in photographs because of my weight and I’d like for that to change.
My last reason comes in the form of a quote from the movie American Beauty. The main character, Lester Burnham (played by Kevin Spacey) is outside his house and starts talking to his neighbor who is donned in running apparel.
Lester: I figured you might be able to give me pointers. I need to shape up. Fast.
Neighbor: Are you just looking to lose weight, or do you want increased strength and flexibility as well?
Lester: I want to look good naked!
This is why I’m losing weight. Why are you?


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Excellent reasons! :)
why did I want to lose weight? So I would fit in a chair with arms..
Confidence is a big sticking point for me. Yesterday someone drove down the bike lane through the entire length of a zillion-acre live-work area just so that she could be in front of me in a slow-moving returns line. I really wanted to say something to her about pointlessly endangering others, but since she was an _emaciated_ jerk I thought she’d probably just insult my appearance. I didn’t want that, so I didn’t say anything.
Maybe she’d have been that kind of jerk, or maybe not, but I almost always assume people are thinking of me that way.
Hi Tyler,
Found your blog for the first time today and I’m having great fun catchign up on your ideas here. Your blog is truly inspiring.
Good luck on your journey!
Dan
I am in AWE of your accomplishments! Wow! You look amazing. Will be following your blog- you have great style!
Thanks Leigh. Just curious, how did you find my blog?
Have a good one!
Congrats, Tyler! And, thank you for sharing what motivated you with us, your readers. I started following your blog yesterday and even though I don’t have much to lose (15 lbs.) I’ve been struggling with it for nearly a decade. But, your blog is particularly motivating because you’re a regular person who has committed to a goal and, like most of the rest of us, has to achieve it on their own without the help of celebrity trainers, specialized diets, etc. I commend your efforts and I’ve got to say I’ll be sweating at the gym with you in spirit! Great work!
It took me a while to find- but this was what I was looking for. Your reasons, what got you moving…. now I am going to go work on what gets me moving (again) – but that’s ok, because now I am not ashamed to say lucky try #10 or more like the 15th try is going to work this time!
Your blog is such an inspiration. And seeing that American Beauty is one of my top 10 all time faves (I’m a sucker for movie trivia and almost always get 100 on this movie) your blog brings me closer to actually wanting to do something about my weight. Now if I could just start that would be nice. Denial can be deadly. When will I stop saying “I’ll start tomorrow”?
It is March 25, how is your new baby? I found your website by accident and really like what you have to say. Best wishes to you, your healthier life, and growing family!
Tyler, I love your blog. I found it by researching Ellipticals. You’re a great inspiration!!! I started the ugly machine last Saturday and did 2 minutes on level one. Six days later I did 12 minutes and I am 4.8lbs lighter!!!
Thank you! Thank you! Hold your daughter close to your healthly heart there is no greater gift!